Friday, 24 August 2012

Tobi: Have You Seen Me Lately?

I'm really feeling myself lately. Two Reasons. One, Mum spent this week with me in Lagos, so check fun, bonding, laughter, shopping, advice and "girl" time! *sigh*!! Two, I got me a new weave, and I am loving it! It's really soft and requires little maintenance (no oils, no sprays - I just finger style with water and that's it! Honestly!) That's mane-heaven right there - and I don't get scared of drizzles anymore. What. Amazingness. Just in case you've all forgotten what I look like (no personal style posts lately, sorry *hiding face*), here are two pictures of me rocking my new mane - this week- what do you think? 
Tuesday: Coral Princess
Thursday: Rasta Tones 
Pretty boho, isnt't it? I'm wearing Outre Premium Natural Indian Human Hair - Baby Soft Wave 14". The weave is actually quite affordable,  and costs just $37.99 (here and here) plus, you only need about two or three packs!

And... someone else hasn't seen me lately!
I got an incredible poem from my amazing amazing friend, Uzo. We share these amazing poems (well, his are amazing?)  from time to time, especially when we haven't talked in a while or just want to say hi, or on birthdays, etc... It's an amazing friendship that we have, truly. We have had so many conversations via poetry, you wouldn't believe ... back and forth.. back and forth.... So I though to share the poem, titled " Dear Tobi" with my favorite people. 

Do not frown at Time.
There is no excuse.
Indifferent and jealous like a hoary housewife
It cannot pause or watch us
Separarated from the landscape of dreams
And Magic.

Do not frown at distance.
Again, Tobi, you cannot make an excuse.
Famished and undending like my heart on rainy days
This road that leads up the loud laughter
And a warm hug perhaps.
Yet I deserve the Nobel:
Distance disappears in the mirror of my handset.

Do not frown at life.
True, there is nothing.
Alll mirages live lies for a living.
Like rainbows that are infact no bows
And cannot shoot down the fat game of your dreams.
Yet, we cannot choose any of these.
(Life's like those your roommates in Lagos Campus.)
There is nothing but hope of hopping off the ground
And land onto the soft sides of the sun at Noon.

So we cannot frown at Inglorious Time, Distance
Or the sham hue of our busy lives that are nothing but
A monotony of mondays.

All I meant to say is:
I miss you, my friend.
I frown only at Robbie Williams.

You can check Uzo out on his blog, crynaijaY'all have a great weekend and - see you next week!


  1. Lovely blog!! Would you like to follow each other on gfc and bloglovin?
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  2. Love the hair, you look great Tobi! Don't you just love those mother and daughter moments?! Beautiful poem.

    1. Thanks a lot!! Yes, those are the times to hold close to your heart!

  3. Ciao! Thank you very much for your comment!! I like your blog,very nice and interesting! Do we follow each other? I follow you,I wait for you,kiss,Paolo

    1. You are welcome and thank you too! We'll be sure to check in on your blog. Ciao!

  4. Ebele Isioma Afuberoh.24 August 2012 at 16:01

    It's lovely, your hair.
    And you're such an inspiration with this writing and stuff.
    And Uzo's poem: beautiful :-)

    1. Ebele!!!!!!!!!! Thanks so much for the support, the love.. those pats on the back - all the time! You have no idea how much you mean, to us! Love you, girl!

  5. This is so cool dear,unique and stylish! I love your posts,check out my new!

  6. hey nice blog an style!
    great poem too!
    would you like to stop by my blog
    and let me know to follow each other???
    thank you!

  7. lovely hairdo

    1. Thanks Sazi. Hope you week is going on fine!

  8. Hello girls, you have a very inspiring blog, we loved it. We are following you already.
    Please visit us and follow if you like what you see. xx

    1. Thanks a lot, girls! we'll be sure to- pronto!

  9. Replies
    1. Thanks so much, girlfriend. You have no idea how much that means, especially when you inspire me Thanks so much for the love!

  10. Such gorgeous inspiration pictures!
    I'm Your New Follower,Hoping That you Will FOLLOW me too.

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    1. Thanks a lot, Priscilla! We'll be sure to! Have a fab weekend!

  11. Great post !

    Love your style and see you as such as good inspiration :) !

    I'm an instant follower of you now :)

    Please feel free to check out my blog if you have the time



    1. Gee, thanks so much! And we are following right back too!

  12. Oh, your style is so bohemian chic! It's too cute. :)

  13. Nice curly hair!
    Thanks for visiting my blog!
    Stella from A Shiny Place

    1. Thanks Stella and you are welcome too!

  14. Replies
    1. :)I love the hat too - was getting all Marley-ed up in that! *laughs*

  15. the hair looks lovely & you look great!

  16. Thank´s for the comment. New post in my blog! I follow you! I love your look!

    1. Thanks Silvia. We'll be sure to check it out!

  17. reeeally nice!! especially the second picture! lovely curls!


  18. I adore your hair!!!Your blog is amazing!Do you want to follow each other? let me know posting on my blog
    Kisses from Romania:*:*


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